Parenting is not a diamond
No matter how hard you, you try to mix at times when their parents. Sometimes the fault of our own words or actions, or even be implemented for our lack of action, but no matter how hard we try to avoid it, our debt is from time to time. Now every player will say: "I'm so and so is reading this hope." I know you. We want to take on more responsibility if they are wrong, but are slow to be alone, especially when it comes to our parents when weChildren.
As parents, we teach our children this lesson well, because their natural tendency is to blame someone else, punishment, ignoring the problem lie or say it never happened. We spend a lot, not many hours teaching parents to educate children to lie and admit their responsibility in a difficult situation, but often as parents we must return to retaliation blame us. Nobody likes to blame us, we fight back, even if wewrong.
This creates stress for everyone around the rocks, and the parent-child relationship brings. If a parent refuses to his role in a problematic situation, to confirm whether their part to contribute to the crisis, the situation is not resolved, so that an elephant in the room the better, or an emotional end of the relationship the worst case. Parents want an overview of the infallibility of their children are present, and certainly the children to know that their parents are wise andinformed, but our children will learn valuable lessons in life, and if the parents are willing to say "I'm screwed here. Please forgive me."
It is not easy and not always convenient, but as parents we have the healing power of a child when he admits his mistake to us and we are forced to remember. The same goes for the parents. We want this kind of honesty from our children, we must model for them as parents. Depending on the age of the child, thisdifferent forms or the degree of sharing, but it is important for our children to see the opportunities that parents are willing to acknowledge forgiveness and restitution as well.
Perfection is a difficult image to maintain. It takes incredible energy and illusion, like a sheet of glass is chipped or cracked. The reality is not perfect, and neither of the parents. Be honest with your children. As a teacher of the values you wantquestion with these characteristics, and modeled as parents.
